So, obviously I haven’t been on here in a long time…..but, especially, I haven’t blogged about homeschool and our related adventures. Well, it is kinda complex and yet, really simple. After the Winter break, Boo basically decided not to do the work that was assigned…..which she did kinda gradually. From January until mid-March, she SLOWED WAY down on her out-put and then added arguing with me….and finally just flat refused to do the work. None of my kids seem to be really scared of me…but, they are of my Honey…LOL. (And really, he is just a big Shrek….all bark…no bite.) Problem is, for whatever reason, they listen to him….so, I told him that he was in charge of her now, as I was tired of the fighting…and I really wasn’t getting that much support from him, I guess he felt like all I needed to do was put down the law and POOF….it would all get better. I finally got so frustrated with the both of them that I told him that HE was in charge now….and I stepped back. No more arguing or fighting…just waited until he got home and said: “Now, deal with her.” This frustrated him after a while, too, as she did START listening but, then went the way of poo-pooing him, too. Finally, we all sat down and agreed on a list of things that she needed to get done daily and then would be allowed privledges: 1) Clean her room; 2) Clean the kitchen and 3) Do school work. This lasted about two days…and she has since NOT completed a day. The bad part is that I have other responsibilities; therefore, there are days where she goes to the sitter and they do lots of fun things (which feel like privileges.) So, basically I have decided to put her back in PS as of August and will. For the remainder of the summer, keep the rule as it is.
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June 25, 2009 by jhcckkm
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Heidi,
I’ve been through something very similar to this with our girls. We’ve rounded the bend now – for the most part – and are settling back into responsibilities and better attention to schoolwork. Please know that things can get better!
If PS feels right for you all at this moment, go with it. Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re giving up on Boo or that you’re not doing right by her. You are a good Mom! And I’m sure this decision has been a tough one to make.
Keep in mind two things:
1) Boo may have hidden reasons for being oppositional with you right now (we just found out that DojoGirl has ADHD, and it explains a lot of our struggles over the years!) A lot of girls with learning differences go undetected until they get into middle school or later. I pray this is not your situation, but remember to be consistent with PS staff, and to advocate for your baby if she isn’t settling in well or needs help.
2) Your options are still wide open. You can do afterschooling if that is something that calls to you. And if PS isn’t working out, there are alternative programs, independent schools, or you can return to homeschooling once you’ve all had a chance to recharge our batteries. If PS works out, great for you all!
Hugs!!!!
Ruby